Safety

Consent and boundaries

Consent must be informed, specific, freely given, enthusiastic, and ongoing. A person can change their mind at any time—even after agreeing earlier or after sexual activity has begun. Silence, hesitation, intoxication, pressure, or a past encounter is not consent.

• Discuss expectations and boundaries before meeting and check in throughout the encounter.
• Never pressure someone with persistence, threats, guilt, money, gifts, travel arrangements, or housing.
• Stop immediately if someone says no, asks to pause, becomes unresponsive, or seems uncomfortable.
• A person who is asleep, unconscious, incapacitated, or severely impaired cannot consent.

Before meeting

Profiles are self-reported. Adult Arrangements does not guarantee someone’s identity, background, intentions, health information, or relationship status. Take time to communicate and trust your instincts.

• Keep early conversations on the service while you assess the person.
• Consider a voice or video call before meeting.
• Tell a trusted person where you are going, who you are meeting, and when you expect to check in.
• Do not let urgency, secrecy, an impressive story, or travel pressure override your judgment.

Meeting in person

For a first meeting, choose a populated public place and stay in control of your transportation. Keep your phone charged and accessible. Watch your drink, limit anything that impairs your judgment, and do not accept unknown substances.

You never owe anyone your time, affection, sex, lodging, or transportation. Leave if you feel uncomfortable. You do not need to be polite at the expense of your safety.

Protect your privacy

Share personal information gradually. Avoid posting your home address, hotel room, workplace, legal name, government identifiers, financial details, travel confirmation numbers, or daily itinerary in your profile or early messages.

• Use unique photos if you do not want a profile image connected to other public accounts through image search.
• Review photos for badges, documents, street signs, reflections, or location details.
• Keep your access code private. Adult Arrangements will not ask you to send it through a message.
• Remember that another person can save or capture content you share, even when a profile is temporary.

Sexual health

Talk openly about protection, testing, contraception, and relevant health information before sexual contact. Profile preferences are self-reported and are not medical verification. Use barrier methods correctly, never tamper with protection, and respect every person’s agreed conditions.

For personalized guidance about STI testing, prevention, vaccination, contraception, PrEP, PEP, or exposure, contact a qualified healthcare professional or local sexual-health clinic. After a possible HIV exposure, PEP is time-sensitive, so seek medical care promptly.

Scams, exploitation, and coercion

Never send money, cryptocurrency, gift cards, banking credentials, verification fees, or intimate material in response to threats. Be cautious when someone quickly asks to move off-platform, claims an emergency, offers an investment, requests financial help, or threatens to expose conversations or photos.

Commercial sexual services, trafficking, exploitation, blackmail, and non-consensual intimate imagery are not allowed. Preserve relevant evidence and contact the appropriate authorities if you are threatened or exploited.

Warning signs

End contact when someone ignores boundaries, gives conflicting identity details, becomes controlling, pressures you to keep secrets, asks for money, refuses reasonable safety precautions, sends unwanted sexual content, or tries to isolate you. A match or conversation is never more important than your safety.

Get help

If you or someone else is in immediate danger, leave the situation if you can and contact local emergency services. Adult Arrangements is not an emergency service and cannot provide immediate intervention.

For a safety concern involving the service, preserve relevant usernames, messages, dates, and screenshots, then email safety@adult-arrangements.com. Do not put yourself at additional risk to gather evidence.